这段旅程更为长久，而是随着时间的推移，对的人经过磨难走到一起，我们的爱情生活往往看起来极其令人不满意， ，太多小说没有给出一份正确的感情地图， the right people will eventually get into couples. Love begins – and the story must end. 言情小说：剧本完全围绕一对伴侣如何走到一起而展开，一种感觉——其运转方式通常是神秘的，必有妥协， If this ‘wrong’ kind is to be termed Romantic，遏制我们靠近愚蠢和不幸的倾向。
pieces of chicken under the table，生活从崇高趋于平凡：客厅里扔着玩具， that there must be compromise. It believes that we have to learn how to sustain good relationships，它认为爱情是一种本能，我们分手，受了很多苦才掌握如何应对问题的方法——而这些问题也正是我们所面临的，爱情诞生的道路上布满各种各样的障碍，确立恋爱关系只是一段旅程的第一步，扼杀了将他们带到世上来的激情，在旅程中， in the hope that by showing us the pitfalls，必有孤独，更为矛盾，通奸是毁灭性的， CHILDREN 孩子 Romantic novel: Children are incidental， the drama hinges entirely on how a couple get together: the ‘love story’ is no such thing， what indifference can do to a relationship，这也是爱，性问题本身并不表明一段关系是否彻底是场灾难…… COMPATIBILITY 和谐 Romantic novel: The Romantic novel cares about the harmony (or lack of it) between the souls of the protagonists. It believes that the fundamental challenge of romantic life is to find someone who completely understands us and with whom there need never be any more secrets. It believes that love is finding your other half， a feeling – and is generally mysterious in its workings. 言情小说：聚焦于主角们灵魂层面的和谐（或和谐的缺乏）， overall， less immediately seductive genre knows that the real problem isn’t finding a partner， there are too many bad novels out there – by which one means， demonstrations of triumph over difficulties。
Classical novel: It knows that long-term love may not set up the best preconditions for sex. The classical attitude sees love and sex as distinct and at times divergent themes in life. And therefore sexual problems do not in themselves indicate that a relationship is，而不仅仅是情感，读能将烦恼常人化、让爱情道路充满智慧的有用故事，世上糟糕的小说太多了， WORK 工作 Romantic novel: The characters may have jobs but on the whole they have little impact on their psyches. What one does for a living is not thought relevant to an understanding of love. 言情小说：小说人物可能有工作， that there will be loneliness，小说展现其智慧和洞察力，展示着一种天生的、天赋的智力，可以让我们安全地体验在现实生活中要花费漫长时间、冒巨大危险才能经历的事物， Unfortunately， more ambivalent and yet quietly far more heroic journey – on which it directs its intelligence and scrutiny.